September 25, 2015
“The most important reason for going from one place to another is to see what’s in between.” (From The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster).
There are many lessons to learn in life, and if we do it right, we never stop learning. We must be great observers and appreciate the wonders around us. Our ears must be open to new ideas. We need to take risks and touch the unfamiliar. Our palates should experience the taste of new experiences, and we need to breathe in the aroma of thoughts beginning to bloom. We must value the journey that we take as we travel from one destination to another.
“Then one day someone discovered that if you walked as fast as possible and looked at nothing but your shoes you would arrive at your destination much more quickly. Soon everyone was doing it…seeing nothing of the wonders of their city as they went.” (ch. 10, p.118)
We are often in a hurry to get where we think we should be, and in doing so, ignore the lessons of the present. How many of us are overscheduled and overwhelmed? We rush through our day, jumping from one task to another until we finally arrive home, exhausted. Our children, too, are shuffled from school to extra-curricular activities and back home in time to eat a quick meal, get the homework done, and go to bed. We are anxious to provide all of the experiences necessary for them to compete for the best schools, the best jobs, the best neighborhoods, in the race for success and future happiness. But what are we missing?
“Ah the open road!...The spirit of adventure, the lure of the unknown, the thrill of the gallant quest. How very grand indeed.” (ch.9 p.101)
While structure is necessary to complete the tasks that we are required to accomplish, it is also important to provide time to relax, to daydream, to think about new ideas, and to enjoy ourselves. Make time in your schedule to spend with your child. Enjoy playing in the park, making a craft, trying a new recipe, or playing a game. Give your child the opportunity to choose how he/she wants to have fun with you.
“It’s true that there are many lands you’ve still to visit (some of which are not even on the map) and wonderful things to see (that no one has yet imagined), but we’re quite sure that if you really want to, you’ll find a way to reach them all by yourself.” (ch. 20 p.255)
While your child is navigating through school and life’s responsibilities, encourage him/her to make his/her own choices and then analyze the results. Learning from the decisions we make is part of the journey.
Support your child’s creativity in all subject areas. When a child is creative, he/she expresses him/herself in as an individual. This, in turn, fosters independence and develops thinking outside of the box.
Throughout his/her journey, your child will need to interact with a variety of people and will have the chance to develop relationships. Support your child reaching out to make friends. Friendships can last a lifetime and all relationships teach us about ourselves.
Encourage fun! We all need relaxation and time to enjoy ourselves. Fun releases tension, boosts energy, and gives our minds a chance to be open to new ideas.
Choices, creativity, friendships, and fun; a part of life, a part of camp, a part of the journey.
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